tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25941227.comments2023-12-24T19:59:45.728-08:00Woman Submit! Christians & Domestic ViolenceJocelyn Andersenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17172491437262657745noreply@blogger.comBlogger132125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25941227.post-86353903055150030202023-12-24T19:59:45.728-08:002023-12-24T19:59:45.728-08:00Great blog thanks for postingGreat blog thanks for postingComic Goalshttps://comicgoals.tumblr.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25941227.post-1530459944565343812023-08-29T13:55:04.465-07:002023-08-29T13:55:04.465-07:00Thank you for sharing this. Thankful you are alive...Thank you for sharing this. Thankful you are alive and able to share how to help others in DV situations.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25941227.post-23429691862750963202023-08-14T09:57:24.699-07:002023-08-14T09:57:24.699-07:00Great readding your postGreat readding your post11375 Aristotle Drivehttps://11375aristotledrive.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25941227.post-45077476635435175362023-07-24T10:21:15.468-07:002023-07-24T10:21:15.468-07:00Thank you for visiting mt blog. The recommend link...Thank you for visiting mt blog. The recommend links in the previous comment are no longer active, but I have since published a comprehensive rebuttal to complementarianism (patriarchy) in my book, "Woman this is WAR! Gender, Slavery, and the Evangelical Caste System." https://www.amazon.com/Woman-Gender-Slavery-Evangelical-System/dp/0979429323 Jocelyn Andersenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17172491437262657745noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25941227.post-71690953975483318912023-05-16T11:33:22.566-07:002023-05-16T11:33:22.566-07:00First time reading this blog thanks for sharing. First time reading this blog thanks for sharing. Soup Recipeshttps://www.souppins.com/soup/butternut_squash_and_bacon_soup_5577108852.shtmlnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25941227.post-2199039250009690822022-07-27T00:49:34.138-07:002022-07-27T00:49:34.138-07:00Nice blog you have here thanks for sharing thisNice blog you have here thanks for sharing thisTile Contractors Appletonhttps://www.tile-professionals.com/us/wisconsin-tile-installation/tile-contractors-appleton.shtmlnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25941227.post-52561385411373509402022-03-17T07:15:18.701-07:002022-03-17T07:15:18.701-07:00Not a wordNot a wordJocelyn Andersenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17172491437262657745noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25941227.post-18852800065384165342022-03-17T06:56:27.750-07:002022-03-17T06:56:27.750-07:00Mary, Thank you so much for sharing your experienc...Mary, Thank you so much for sharing your experience with us as we navigate the minefield of abuse and its aftermath. May God use you in a great and mighty way to be a blessing to others.Jocelyn Andersenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17172491437262657745noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25941227.post-83151234213932754962021-11-26T00:57:06.599-08:002021-11-26T00:57:06.599-08:00Heello nice postHeello nice postEvan Shttps://www.evanstafford.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25941227.post-33688597229667610422021-08-13T04:47:41.200-07:002021-08-13T04:47:41.200-07:00Jocelyn, what a mighty God indeed. I am so thankf...Jocelyn, what a mighty God indeed. I am so thankful to Him for sparing your life so you could be the voice you now are for those who are gagged. What the enemy intended for evil, God has turned it out for your good and the good of many many more than you can count.<br /><br />I remembered a dark night on the streets of Hackney, London as a small child walking with my bloody faced mouther on our way to the hospital . . . I now know what the faint scare on her lips symbolizes. How selfish of me then . . . and now, especially as a Christian. I have not been fair to her, by not understanding the impact of her life abuse experiences, so so much more than DV . . . I now recognize I need to not only repent but address her behaviour toward me from a different perspective, certainly with more grace. A few days ago as I pondered on meeting her again soon (last time 2016) I sensed I didn't want to touch her, I then realised I still have issues I need to address. Vising your site and reading the first chapter of your book is a reminder of what I need to do.<br /><br />I will purchase the book, peruse your site in more detail and I am certain it will be a helpful tool in my preparation for the new project I am part of that includes an arm for setting up and running refuges.<br /><br />Thank you for sharing your pain, shame and beauty you have acquired for your ashes through the faithful loving-kindness of our heavenly Father, who promised to never leave or forsake you.<br /><br />Once again, a vision comes before me of perpetrators. This time it was more clear, I saw men who are repentant and need support to overcome their guilt and shame.<br /><br />Mary BMary Bnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25941227.post-3199886435934524442018-09-17T02:29:33.861-07:002018-09-17T02:29:33.861-07:00Find the New York domestic violence defense lawyer...Find the New York domestic violence defense lawyer who has the qualities you need and who you can trust to do everything in their power to protect you and your future.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.mylongislandlawyers.com/" rel="nofollow">Domestic Violence Lawyer Glen Cove</a><br /><a href="http://www.davemejias.net/" rel="nofollow">Domestic Violence Lawyer Long Island</a>Dave Mejias - Divorce Lawyerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05840495269659610242noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25941227.post-88999751016360093362018-05-27T16:58:34.716-07:002018-05-27T16:58:34.716-07:00Your story is tragic and all too common. This must...Your story is tragic and all too common. This must change, and I am praying it will change. Jocelyn Andersenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17172491437262657745noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25941227.post-29310284490852060112018-05-09T12:05:03.143-07:002018-05-09T12:05:03.143-07:00I’m so thankful I’ve never experienced anything li...I’m so thankful I’ve never experienced anything like this. Thank you, Jocelyn for reminding me to have patience and compassion if God places someone in my path that needs help. Diane Yateshttp://www.dianeyates.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25941227.post-61113097968448277122018-01-04T17:42:48.390-08:002018-01-04T17:42:48.390-08:00The ex kidnapped all my four children. Daughter ca...The ex kidnapped all my four children. Daughter came back to me 7 years later. I sometimes wonder why. Although I finished raising her, she has turned against me. They were all raised with anger and fear and many lies. Churches still alienate me. Adelenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25941227.post-78183784256556035592016-05-28T09:54:53.023-07:002016-05-28T09:54:53.023-07:00Whats the social opinion about annulment vs divorc...Whats the social opinion about annulment vs divorce?<br /><a href="http://www.familylawsj.com/" rel="nofollow">jeffrey kerstetter</a>Rose Mariahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04080536952744694488noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25941227.post-46546816645192428952016-05-02T16:40:49.534-07:002016-05-02T16:40:49.534-07:00Thank you for your careful handling of God's W...Thank you for your careful handling of God's Word.<br /><br />For your consideration:<br /><br />https://jenniferjolene.wordpress.com/2016/02/26/two-verses-i-never-understood-before-genesis-47-and-316/<br /><br />These are the best, most accurate translations:<br /><br />Genesis 4:7 - “Will you not, if you do the right thing, be uplifted? And if you don’t do the right thing, there at the entryway lies (a male goat), a sin offering. He is turning towards you, so rule over him.”<br /><br />Genesis 3:16 - “To the woman he said, ‘I will greatly increase your pain in pregnancy. In painful toil you will bear children but your turning will be towards your husband (like a sheep turns toward its shepherd); therefore he will rule over you.” (Genesis 3:16)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16303306730946791718noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25941227.post-20320535740380625042014-12-07T01:57:57.891-08:002014-12-07T01:57:57.891-08:00"The complementarian movement is huge. It is ..."The complementarian movement is huge. It is a well organized Goliath backed by organizations, denominations, seminaries, numerous conferences, authors, and money. . .lots of it." <br /><br />This movement has no power if women refuse to participate in their own subjugation. Don't go to these churches. Don't get involved with these men. Attend an egalitarian church or just maintain a private relationship with Jesus on your own. Unilateral submission is a recipe for disaster. Thanks for speaking out. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25941227.post-77138073190607298882014-11-30T21:35:03.388-08:002014-11-30T21:35:03.388-08:00How liberating is this article! Very well written...How liberating is this article! Very well written and eye opening. Thank you so much for this information.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25941227.post-91101993957315326712014-05-03T01:51:57.457-07:002014-05-03T01:51:57.457-07:00Look out world! Jocelyn's blogging!Look out world! Jocelyn's blogging!Cynthia Kunsmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08060294887790881860noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25941227.post-38487426886756353492014-05-01T07:15:38.319-07:002014-05-01T07:15:38.319-07:00The organization that Robertson works for has the ...The organization that Robertson works for has the responsibility to move him to the background if he won't retire. Stories and articles on that organizations own website do NOT agree with what he said, and they have a responsibility here too.<br /><br />Yes, I hold Robertson completely responsible for what he said. <br /><br />Yet, his employer has some responsibility here as well. They clearly need to use him elsewhere, and fine a more mature person to answer audience's questions.<br /><br />Its just common sense. Why do these places need a hammer on their head NOT to see that?Hannahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15165967476661656865noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25941227.post-11110853724273480002014-04-15T08:39:42.944-07:002014-04-15T08:39:42.944-07:00While fanciful as the authors portrays the article...While fanciful as the authors portrays the article, it is incomplete.<br />It obviously is taken from the viewpoint of a woman.<br /><br />Ephesians 5:22 et al and 1Timothy2 both clarify the roles of women.<br />"Man is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church"<br /><br />And<br /><br />"Wives submit to your husbands in all things"<br /><br />Women are therefore reduced to chattel, property of a man. And domestic violence is a political term. It doesn't exist. Man has the authority and right to discipline his wife any way he sees fit but not murder. Just as Christ does. Stuff rolls downhill so to speak.<br /><br />They are to obey him in everything except violating the word of God.<br /><br />Women are NEVER to exercise authority over a man. This means they cannot be judges, bosses, cops, politicians, any job where they can, do, or might have authority over a man. Apparently they aren't smart enough to make proper judgments and any decisions are 'female based - (AKA liberal or communist in today's vernacular).<br /><br />The Bible also talks about court testimony of women. As a minimum it takes 2 women to equal one man's testimony in court. And in some things her word does not count. A man's testimony is takes and fact and above that of a woman.<br /><br />The value of a woman is between 1/2 and 2/3 that of a man. Leviticus 27:3-7<br />Therefore equal pay for equal work is a sin.<br /><br />Women were bought from the father (dowry or sorts) with things like a cow or gold or other things of value. Women were commonly bought, sold, and traded like a commodity.<br /><br />Example is Moses. He bought his 2 wives with 14 years of labor. And God saw this as good or he wouldn't have let it happen.<br /><br />Polygamy (more than one wife, but not the reverse) IS legal and proper according to the bible.<br /><br />Ever see a young man ask her father for 'permission' to marry his daughter?<br /><br />There are reasons why throughout the eons of time that matriarchal societies never last. And societies revert back to patriarchal types.<br /><br />The main reason is their thought processes are inconsistent with reality. They are emotionally driven whereas life is logic driven. The two are incompatible.<br />"Feel Good" behavior and laws are based on the feminine ideals and are not following God's word.<br /><br />God made Adam in his own likeness (image). Eve came from Adam. Eve was to be his helpmate (an employee or slave of sorts). Adam was in charge, not eve. God made it this way. God gave Adam dominion over all things and eve is one of those things.<br />Unless you believe God is a liar?<br /><br />Eve was seduced by the serpent and in turn Eve seduced Adam into eating the fruit.<br /><br />She basically "passed the buck" and figured if she was gong down for sinning she wouldn't go down alone.<br /><br />Adam, not wanting to be alone again nor desiring to lose ANOTHER body part joined her.<br /><br />And her evil treachery was complete.<br /><br />In earlier Pagan civilizations, women were in charge.<br /><br />They failed because women are not genetically or religiously supposed to control anything. When they do, disaster soon follows. Otherwise Matriarchal societies would have lasted. They would be right up there with the well know societies like the Pharaohs, Romans, Greeks, etc. Since they aren't, this is evidence that women are not to rule.<br /><br /><br />All of this is history.<br /><br />To answer the topic question, yes, roles were established. God created man with a purpose and then woman with a purpose. You do not create anything without a 'blueprint' of sorts.<br /><br />And the above information is part of the blueprint.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25941227.post-73341988037135055432013-08-07T21:19:53.011-07:002013-08-07T21:19:53.011-07:00? ? ? "Beats th' Heck out'a ME!"...? ? ? "Beats th' Heck out'a ME!"<br />I don't understand this. Nor do other people respond well (until they know us) when I tell them we've never raised a hand, never raised our voices toward each other. But I will confess, if you counted on your fingers the times we've sharpened our voices at each other you would probably have to use both hands. Our marriage isn't insipid, but intentional and strong. Neither of us is a weakling. We just remember that we love each other, why we love each other, and daily explore how to love each other better. 30 years; just getting started.<br />Now, I'll bet some fool out there has a harsh word for me on this, but I'm telling you it can be good. <br />One trick; find the best mother/father-in-law you can, and marry their kid.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25941227.post-64259770718815619532013-06-04T06:25:59.595-07:002013-06-04T06:25:59.595-07:00yes you are right about domestic abuse i like your...yes you are right about domestic abuse i like your article its too good.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.faceforwardla.org/" rel="nofollow">www.faceforwardla.org</a>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25941227.post-38151644477226620412013-02-10T21:04:14.880-08:002013-02-10T21:04:14.880-08:00"7. we demand that the Council on Biblical Ma..."7. we demand that the Council on Biblical Manhood and Biblical Womanhood make known to every boy and every girl who attend an evangelical church, that God is their head, and that authority over another human being can come only from God."<br /><br />And, of course, through his chosen mouthpiece, the "lead" or "senior" pastor.<br /><br />http://pilgrimagetogeneva.com/2012/10/29/is-mark-driscoll-grooming-mars-hill-to-become-a-cultAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-25941227.post-82219443330413305312013-01-12T00:38:33.425-08:002013-01-12T00:38:33.425-08:00Really great information about Domestic Violence. ...Really great information about Domestic Violence. We need to eradicate form our society. <br /><br /><br /><a href="http://pinterest.com/plnlegalnetwork/attorney-alliance-union-in-alliance-and-attorney-a/" rel="nofollow">Attorney Alliance Union</a>Attorney Alliance Unionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11163575144356869236noreply@blogger.com