Would the REAL CHURCH Please Stand Up!, by formerly battered Christian wife, Susan Greenfield, is a detailed challenge to all Christians in responding biblically when the issue of abuse and domestic violence among Christians presents itself up close and personally at the local church. click here for more info
Another excellent resource is Waneta Dawn's, Behind the Hedge.
In this fictional account of an abusive marriage within a Christian home, Waneta Dawn has done an amazing job of exploring the dynamics of such a relationship, and the destructive effects of it on the entire family. It is written with God given insight, sensitivity, and compassion.
The story is a page turner and portrays biblical guidance for women experiencing abuse that has not yet escalated into physical violence. click here for more info